joiemusselman
the place that i sit. want to have sex, but honestly the couch is rather dirty and he really wouldn't want to have sex anyway. But I am alright with his decision, so I guess we can just eat dinner, have a cider, and watch a game on the couch instead. Seems like a rather decent evening to me. At least i enjoyed it last time. I believe he did as well. But when I think of that couch I think of his roommate and the ugly blacket that is always there. I would never buy a black leather couch. But hey, that's what his new wife has to deal with. not me. I prefer that one I saw at Big Lots the other day, not that I shop there often, but I was killing time. Plus, it was cheap and almost exactly what I was looking for in a nice relaxation device. The only thing is, he doesn't seem to want to ever move in with me. Well, at least that is what he says. Yet we practically live together now. I really don't see the difference. And whenever we go shopping, he points out something that he thinks we need for "our" room. Since when has it been our room? He claims he doesn't want to move into together until we get married (in about ten years), but he always wants me to spend the night and he acts as though we are already moved in together. I just don't understand his reasoning. And I can't just wait forever for him to figure out his own head. I have to make a schedule and it won't work if he suddenly feels that we should live together and I suddenly have to move to another state. Plus, how are we going to keep this relationship up for several years if we are living in different states? I don't think he has thought this through completely. I tried to show him my point of view, but I'm not sure if it went through. And, I also mentioned that he would have this same problem with any future girl he is with, and somehow this is what made him stop and ponder his own thought processes. Go figure.